She was first Janice Cassin, then Janice Hebert, then Janice
Isenberg, and then – in the end just plain old Janice Cassin again, who she
always felt she was anyway. Born with a
sharp tongue that always got her into trouble, or got people laughing, she went
through life never afraid to tell anyone what she thought, which is a blessing and a curse. Along the way she married, raised 4 children
while the husband was away, then finished on 4 more that another woman had
kindly left for her, loving them all.
She was a mother to us all, always sitting at the kitchen table early in
the morning, with a cigarette and a cup of coffee, always willing to give one
of us comfort, and sometimes guidance as well, when needed or asked for. And even after her stroke at 72, when the
entire universe of her words were reduced to “So, So, So”, still, still with
just one of her many looks you could always tell what she was thinking, and
what she needed you to do. Five more
years she lived. So now she is has
departed from this mortal coil, and all we are left with is the photographs and
the memories, and of course the finest gift of all, the warm and lasting comfort of knowing that
we were all lucky enough to have her as our mom.
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